I still think it's a scam...
Then don't sign the contract. No one forces you choose one photographer over another. Or even any photographer. But when you hire a photographer you agree to certain terms.
like every other overpriced service attached to the wedding industry. And it's not "countless" hours of unpaid work. It's a definite fixed amount at an extortionate rate.
It only feels like 'countless' hours to the photographer who has been editing 1500 to 3000 images. To have 500 images available to show the client (the post above dated July 18) requires several times that many total shots taken. Lets call it 1500 total shots because the photographer nails 1 out of 3 images on average.
There is probably about 3 to 6 hours prior to the wedding for the photographer to show their portfolio and make the sale, and then to coordinate with the couple what is needed on the day. Often the couple change their plans - sometimes multiple times. The photographer needs to be on site and ready prior to anything happening. If it is an unfamiliar location they may have already scouted it in the days prior to wedding. All of this is not directly charged for, and is part of the package. Before the wedding they have had to create a filing system for that customer to ensure that the customer gets their photos and not somebody else's. That all the correspondence is filed into one place for future reference, etc etc
Then there is the day itself. This is what you see. They have brought expensive camera gear that needs to be replaced/repaired on a regular basis. They should also have a backup camera system for 'just in case'. They may have brought an assistant. They should have liability insurance (a cost to them). They likely are also paying into a group benefits plan (since they are self employed they have no employment benefits) and belong to several professional associations that help them to stay current with current technologies and expectations. They have likely had to pay for a business license, income taxes of course, sales taxes perhaps. They are also paying to have an office/studio somewhere.
They also have just one chance to get it right. There are no reshoots here.
Then after the wedding they go through the photos. They need to cull the bad ones and mark the good ones for further processing. Lets say the photographer is very efficient, and can go through 1500 photos taking no more than 15 seconds each on average.... just to pick the 500 'keepers'. That is 6.25 hours. Before they have done any real post production work.
Now they have just 500 photos to process. If it takes them just one minute to look at, assess, and edit each photo then they are working for over 8 hours. I can tell you that 1 minute is not long enough. If it takes 5 minutes, then the photographer is putting in a full week non-stop to edit the photos - on top of all the time listed above.
Photographer needs to pay for the computer equipment, including replacement/repair on a regular basis. More insurance, etc etc.
Then, once the editing is done there are several more hours to package up the project, write up the invoice, meet with the client, etc etc.
On top of all this, the photographer spends a great deal of time on activities that have nothing to do any particular client. They take time to train. They take time to learn new software. They spend a great deal of time marketing. For paying client a photographer meets, there are several clients who are just shopping around. Of all the 'paid' work a photographer does must be done around the 'unpaid' time of meeting prospective clients.
And removing watermarks is not stealing. Those pictures are, to all intents and purposes, worthless to the photographer. He cannot sell them because nobody will buy them. Having already leeched £1500 from the only person who would be interested in them, the greedy photographer has bled his market dry.
I'm sorry that you seem to have had a bad experience. If you were fleeced by a unscrupulous photographer, well... that is too bad. Unfortunately there are bad apples everywhere. But in my experience wedding photographers work very hard and earn every penny. At least the good ones do.