So, to wrap this up, it appears that the iPhone has to independently build a database, and update it. It takes HOURS, and in the interim, it just doesn't report the true count until it's done plodding through all of the music. I guess it makes sense, I was just surprised at how long it took, and how it didn't show a hint of what it was going through. I had no idea that it was furiously working to categorize the many tunes installed on it. Was it always so slow? I don't remember having that happen. I don't remember having access to a scant percentage of the content uploaded. I was riding, and put my iPhone on shuffle, and the choices were pathetic. But without wiping again, or doing anything more drastic, I appear to have most of my tunes on the iPhone, and the ride yesterday was filled with music I haven't heard in years.
It worked. Finally. It took a LONG time, to me. Wow...
Someone asked me if I had music on my AW. 'No. Why would I do that?' They shrugged. Yep...
Dump lots of content on the iPhone, and expect a long long long wait, and no indication how the process is going. I guess that's the part I don't get. They could be showing what's happening, rather than make (me) people think something is broken. *sigh*
ROCK ON!!!