Got a new pair of X5675. Delidded them with no damage visible to the eye. Tried them on, but wasn't able to get a chime out of them. I changed the 2,26 gig cpus back, had a bit of trouble finding the right tightness, but finally got the cMP to boot. With the x5675s I got either a steady white led light or a blinking one, but no chime. I think I tried both of them in the A slot.
Are you sure that the X5675's were working before you delidded them? Most importantly, did you flash to 5,1 first? The 4,1 won't boot with Westmere Xeons until flashed.
Now: as to delidding, a tip: after removing the lid from 4 x5675s, I think I can say that the process of the lid coming loose is not straightforward. It doesn't just snap off. Instead it seems that the solder has some elasticity and you have to go back and forth for several times with the vice, until the bond is finally loose. At least with the x5675s this seems to be the case, perhaps with others?
That was not my experience. I tightened the vice until the heat spreader popped off. I bent the heat spreader on a practice run but all the lids popped off clean. I did a pair of X5680's. The hardest part was removing all of the excess solder to get a smooth die surface afterwords.
Here is a question: with the structure of the 2009 dual tray, with delidded cpus, is it a realistic scenario that one can go so tight with the heatsink, that one can break the tray? My feeling was that when eventually I managed to get both old cpus online (as well as all the ram), I perhaps had to go tighter than I had gone with the x5675s. One of these days, I think I´ll give it another go, but would love to know more.
The way I tighten the bolts is to screw the four posts in a star pattern and then hand tighten, but don't force it. You can over-tighten and mess up the CPU socket if you tighten too hard. Inspect the cpu sockets to see if there are any bent pins as Snow Tiger suggested. You may be able to gently massage the pins back into place with a small screwdriver.
The CPU socket in my 4,1 was damaged by overtightening but with a bit of patience I've managed to get the computer working quite well.