Yes, this is what I was talking about.
That person had a M1 Mac Mini which struggled to run Blender smoothly at native 4k resolution - let alone the 5k + downsampling overhead required in scaled mode. Since it sounds like Blender was their daily driver, a 4k display really didn't offer much value for them. The scaling issue was a complete red herring, (especially with Blender, of all things, which has its own independently scalable UI and doesn't need scaled mode).
The
website they were referencing correctly describes the scaling "issue" and other factors but if you skim it and just latch on to the tables saying a 1440p 37.5" is "good" and a 4k UHD 27" is "bad" without discussing pixel visibility or
the ability to display 4k content at all you get a very distorted view.
Let's be realistic and look at your choices if you want a pair of large displays for your Mac:
1. Pay $12000 for a pair of Pro Display XDRs and enjoy the optimum 220ppi MacOS experience.
2. Get a pair of 32" 1440p displays, suffer a significant resolution downgrade & visible pixels
and give up any possibility of viewing 4k content at full detail - but never sully your eyes with scaling artefacts. To be fair, only a few years ago we thought 1440p was the bee's knees so it's not like you won't be productive.
3. Compromise on a pair of 32" 4k displays that
always show more detail than a 1440p screen (even in "looks like 1440p" mode), and have the flexibility of switching between 1:1, 2:1 and scaled mode (all of which will be very usable on a 32" display) as the task demands.
TLDNR - if you already have a pair of 32" 4k's, you're probably overthinking things. Scaling is only a problem with some very-specific photo/graphics workflows where you need to display content at "actual pixels" size, or if you're already maxing out the GPU. It is a non-issue for text at normal viewing distances unless you're planning to climb up on the desk with a magnifying glass and do A/B comparisons with a Pro Display XDR.
I'd only consider a 1440p display if my
primary work couldn't take advantage of 4k.
The question still is if this can be prevented by using a 3rd party tool like BetterDisplay.
No. They might give you a wider choice of screen modes but they'll either be 1:1, 2:1, scaled
or let you drive the display at a non-native resolution which may be useful for getting games etc. to run but generally looks awful.
I don't know if any of the various screen tools offer a more convenient menu, or even hotkeys, for switching between favourite modes, but that would be the most valuable contribution they could make.