Um, Sermon on the Mount, and the incident with the money-lenders are both examples of pushing your beliefs on others...
Christians have a well organized and extensive missionary system to spread the word. It is Christians who come knocking on my door to ask me if I have taken Christ into my heart. I actually enjoy these visits - I see them as a chance to to do a little reverse missionarizing... I am not Christian, and I am very comfortable in beliefs. Plus I have a knack for asking awkward questions. Plus most Christians, imho, don't really know the Bible as well as they think they do. And if they do, it's a badly translated one. I like pulling out my Jewish Pentateuch with the translator's notes. I love it when our visitor exclaims "It says that???!!?!"
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Back to the topic...
OP - you said that Steve wouldn't porn on the site, and then pointed to a piece of non-porn (imo) to prove that things are different. But if it's not porn, then Steve would have allowed it.... so your argument is not, imho, a strong one. Plus...Steve is gone and there are going to be changes.