Sorry, that I couldn't respond until now. The last few weeks were quite turbulent. And now that the kids are at home due to the Corona virus, it's not getting easier.
The whole Corona situation also changed my own decision what's best for my mother.
I live several hundred kilometers away, so I can't help set up the phone. I can't help when she has problems when using the new phone. And right now nobody knows when it is save to visit her. My mother has a very high risk to die when she catches the corona virus.
I really don't like it but I decided to go with the android phone right now. My sister lives next to my mother. It is the best decision for now. And to share our pictures we might get a new iPad when the old one won't work anymore.
Good luck to you all! And stay healthy.
