I'm a bit the same way but it was Android for me during the time that made me go 'meh'
Up until 2009, I was using a Nokia 5185i. I had zero need for a smartphone and thought the iPhone was Newton 2.0 and destined to fail. In my limited mind back in '09, I asked 'why on earth should something as simple as a cell phone become a computer? it just overengineers things!' It made zero sense to me at that time to do email on a 3.5" screen.
But then I found out the hard way that batteries aren't made forever, and once Nokia stopped making batteries for at the time a decade-old phone, they eventually fail. I had started a new job then, and needed to do field service calls and relied on that phone (which admittedly got a far superior signal compared to GSM phones and none of that 'GSM buzz' that was common at the time affected me) and eventually the battery would die a few minutes into a call, which eventually became 1 minute, and then seconds. I kept it plugged into my truck then 24/7 but it wouldn't/couldn't do the job anymore. Boss handed me his 1 year old iPhone 3GS in 2010, he had just upgraded to a new iPhone 4, and he basically said 'ditch the old phone or you're fired' and I reluctantly was introduced to smartphones for the first time in my life.
It amazed me. It was fast, fluid, the skeuomorphic UI literally turned what was otherwise a lifeless hunk of glass and back plastic to whatever I needed it to be, and I do mean literally. Open up the internet radio app, it actually looked like an old FM radio, with 'LCD' display, and tuning 'knobs'. Open up Notes, it was a literal notepad, complete with torn paper animation when 'deleting' a note. It was amazing.
Around 2011, I had just gotten an iPhone 4S, got introduced to Siri, had an iPad, and my first iPod touch. I was so Apple-addicted I couldn't help myself. Battery life was days, not minutes anymore. Nothing could be better, so in 2012, I got a MacBook Pro, with OS X Mountain Lion. Even more fun.
But being a tech geek, I had to know what this 'Android' was all about. Where I lived, everyone used iPhones, but occasionally I'd spot some bearded guy (like hippy type) with a 'rooted' Archos Android tablet, and it was doing some amazing things of its own. It had a stylus integrated, stereo speakers on the bezel, and he had it running Linux of all things. Best I could do was well, play low quality Youtube videos, not run full desktop apps on my iPad.
So I tried Android. All the 'affordable' handsets sadly only ran ancient versions such as Android 2.3 Gingerbread or earlier, and the experience was horrible. It was stuttery, apps always crashed (I had never experienced a single crash on an iPhone) and often rebooted itself when it'd inevitably freeze. I started seeing Android as horrible, and a lousy attempt to cop iOS. I wrote it off, but couldn't stop messing with it. Devices were cheap, and easy to hack, and custom ROMs started to peak, the most notable and one of my personal favorites was CyanogenMod 7.1, which was based on 2.3 Gingerbread, but was offering customization well beyond the norm, including full on themes that not just changed the icons or the launcher, but the entire apps. Want chrome? as in actual skeuo chrome? there's a 'chrome' theme that made every slider, or app button into chrome, not just built-in apps, but most third party apps. Want coverflow? you can skin the AOSP music player to mimic it. It also could do overclocking, split screen, the works. To this day I still miss that level of customization and most modern ROMs are not even close to that. Most just update the version of Android beyond what's last supported on your phone or tablet but not much else. Things like Xposed modules no longer exist, and Google SafetyNet made rooting into a chore.
Still, Android performed like crap compared with iOS, especially the scrolling, and I could never look past that. It irked me too much to stand it. I often used that alone as a red mark against Android and why it'd never be my main daily driver. Also, what little skeuo stock Android could do was nowhere near as detailed or fun as what iOS was doing up to version 6. I've witnessed Android app updates changing things and rearranging stuff too often where one needs to relearn the app every time. Drove me batty. When Google updated Youtube to work with the holo design of Android 4.x, they broke tablet UI, and there were now three options and guessing which one did settings, was a chore. Is it the hamburger menu? the gear icon? the ellipsis? Why, Google, why not a simple menu that pops out with the menu button? Oh? the menu button is deprecated? why? what good does making redundant options and making us hunt for which does 'settings,' a simple task, accomplish?
Well, I took comfort that Apple always improved apps, added more details, and more features with updates, not turn the OS into a chore, or rearrange things needlessly. So I always left auto-update on, and until iOS 7, that worked. When iOS 7 self-installed to my iPhone 4S, and iPad 3, What I woke up to made me wonder if something went horribly wrong or it was in some sort of 'safe mode' because it didn't look right. I searched, and posted on iMore, which was another Mac/Apple forum, and was basically told 'this is the new way' and 'get used to it' along with 'you will be irritated but it will grow on you one day'
Yeah, like a wart. I HATED it. whatever was fun about iOS, what differentiated it from Android was that detail and it was now gone! Why, Apple?! Did you hire some Google UI designer or have they infiltrated Apple?
Angry, and still not happy with having to go to Android, I did a massive phone search. I finally saw Samsung Galaxy devices up close, and they were doing skeuo in a way similar to the old Apple, and showed no signs of changing (but after iOS 7, I figured Samsung would one day go the same direction so my plan was to disable software updates this time) and I left with a Samsung Galaxy Tab 2 10.1, and a Galaxy SIII.
I was even happier with those, not only for doing realistic skeuomorphism, but also adding in cues and sounds from nature on top. the phone was really nice in the hand, and the UI design combined two things I adored, skeuomorphism along with nature. I enjoy walks in the forests and visit deer parks often and it just fit me perfectly. I used Samsung's apps having known how often Google changes things unnecessarily, and found out they fit the UI perfectly, and work as I felt they should, and were pretty darn smooth. The phone felt more like an iPhone in performance than one of those half-garbage ZTE phones I played around on running version 2.3.
So I had finally converted to Android. and for 6 years I was happy and amassed recently a slew of other older Samsung devices and have still preferred Nature UX, as it was perfect for me. Occasionally I'll experiment with Apple as I once did Android, and have a current MacBook Pro, and a few Apple TVs, a newer iPad, and an iPod touch. While it's nowhere near the fun of the days of my 3GS, they work well. I was deep in Apple's ecosystem and my 6 years with Android have now made them so similar I don't feel like anything's missing going from one to another.
I still have problems trying out most modern devices outside my Apple devices, and my iPhone eventually decided it won't send SMS anymore, no matter what. It just outright refuses. My girlfriend uses Android and so I can't use iMessage. I prefer SMS over it anyway, since I've become familiar with those old Chat programs of yore and it reminds me of AIM or MSN Messenger, and having experienced Facebook Messenger's 'features' such as 'delivered, seen, user is typing' and getting confused (as in my girlfriend would be 'typing' but nothing came in, so I assumed she was faking me out, or ignoring me, and sometimes my messages would show 'send' but never 'seen' and it made for some rather rough problems) I preferred SMS just saying 'sent' and waiting for a response. All the rest of those 'features' are confusing clutter. unnecessary. I never group text anyway.
So I'm using a mixture of devices, some old, some new. I have finally found a modern smartphone that fits my pocket and has a comfortable UI design, despite it having a 6.2" display. The LG Stylo 5. It's like a Galaxy Note but not long like a remote control or too wide for my hands. The rear mounted fingerprint sensor can wake and unlock the screen in a tap, avoiding the fingerprint smudges I hate so much (a nice feature given that voice wakeup has been gone from smartphones since the Galaxy S4). I also have a couple of newer Samsung tablets but my times with Android 10 are not good times. Android 10 or at least Samsung's take on it is total dumbing down, and full of nagware designed for the stupid. 'This app has your location' DUH! it's the freaking navigation app! 'this notification can't be turned off' why?! Why must I be pestered about this?! 'This app was shut down to save power' oh? so now I can't listen to music while browsing the web?! Funny, my old SIII can handle that just fine!
"One UI" to me is total garbage. Worse than iOS 7, and Samsung has really ruined the experience. So I guess LG is where it's at now. I still got my old Samsung stuff but one day keeping them alive is going to be a chore, and 3G is dying, and VoLTE is becoming mandated soon, so like it or not, their days are numbered (wifi-tablets being exceptions until the browser is eventually unable to pull up websites) so the LG Stylo is currently the only newer phone I like at the moment. Flat UI still, but at least it's not looking like a Fisher-Price toy. It's got a nice wallpaper, and the icons match it, and offers themes. The UI feels like a modern take on classic Samsung software, and features gone from the later Samsung UI, such as lockscreen shortcuts (as in five, not just two), as well as pop-up window apps (Qslide), and the UI itself are still present, and aren't dumbed down. It can multitask and works perfectly. Running Android 9.0 it feels more like the G3 running KitKat, since the Pie stuff is well-hidden, the clock is on the right, the notifications area can show more than 4 icons, and the app switcher is the older one. Got some nice naturey sounds as well, and it isn't blinding me. Gestures are not forced and if you enable them, they make far more sense than the ones in Android 10.
Most modern devices feel 'meh' to me but it's not Apple or Android, it's all of them. Very few check all my boxes (headphone jack, notification LED, a UI that doesn't treat me like an idiot or look intended for children, etc) but it's not a single OEM I'm married to this day and age. I go with whomever fits my needs/wants in a device.