It's not just a "buzzword" on the part of Android/Google/etc. It's real and several examples in this thread are perhaps not of value to you but they are real. In some cases however, they aren't of value such as downloading a spreadsheet, pdf, MSWord File, etc. because in iOS you really can't download it, edit it and store it in a true file system for later use. You can "park it" in the file system of another 3rd party app but that's just a ridiculous work-around.
I was at the airport recently and while waiting for my flight, wanted to take advantage of the time by multitasking on my phone. There were about a dozen videos (11 GB) worth of Affordable Care Act related videos up on YouTube that I wanted to download and review on a plane ride in efforts to tackle some learning for work, but on an iPhone that wouldn't be possible in several ways. However, with my Note 3 not only could I open a dual screen answering email (1) while simultaneously searching downloading multiple videos from YouTube at one time (2), I could then put both those apps in the background and move onto something else (3rd thing), all while waiting for my notification that the videos were on board my micro SD Card. At the same time as all of the above, Google Now was keeping me posted on the status of my flight real-time, including gate changes and delays pushing those notifications to me as well while I was doing something else (4th thing). While all that's going on, my weather widget is keeping me updated real time on what the weather was like at my destination. (5th thing) Before getting on my plane I could swipe over to my 2nd home screen and see my SalesForce.com Widget and read real-time updated communications from my sales team. (6th thing)
At the same time Google Now is also reading through my emails, picking up any order confirmations that come to me from vendor. Once it sees it, it begins tracking my UPS Package from Amazon that I ordered the night before and will notify me of it being delivered without me doing anything, so I can call my neighbor and insure he gets the box off my front porch as I would be in the air. When I land and turn on my phone, it will update me on traffic and the route/time to my hotel so when I get in my rental car, I'm not caught by a surprise accident delaying me. As I approach my hotel, Retail me Not will chime in with updates on coupons and specials that are around me and Google Now will read my calender and present me the directions to the steakhouse I'm having a dinner meeting at and also present me with their menu. The last few aren't true multitasking but they are an example of great Google Driven features that happen in the background and come through as notifications that I can dismiss individually.
The above is true multitasking. 6 Tasks all being done simultaneously some in the background and some by me first hand all with the ability to switch back and forth without interrupting the other.
There are a number of examples whereby Android can use Live Widgets that are active in the background updating and presenting us with real-time information. Not just with "select-supported" apps either. Sure, Apple has "supported" apps that can do similar things....but not supporting Dropbox? Really? Users are okay with that? iOS will support. No thanks, I want to be able to choose which apps I want to use and know that if it's my photos, that they will be uploaded in the background while I do other things.
And in 11 minutes, you're ready to recharge your battery again!
OP - iOS 7 introduced "intelligent multitasking". No it doesn't work like Android in that it doesn't simply let apps do whatever they want, whenever they want. Instead, if iOS 7 recognizes you check Facebook in the morning, it will update your Facebook each morning - things like that.
Safari WILL continue loading a page, even if you back out of safari, but the reality is pages load in about a second - essentially the page is loaded before I have time to switch to anything else.
Yes the iPhone has a relatively small amount of RAM. So background processes get halted periodically based on system needs. But that's also why my iPhone is sitting at 98% battery life versus my Nexus 5 at 86%.
If you want to download torrents and read emails while watching youtube videos, you want an Android phone. Otherwise? "True-multitasking" is a rallying cry for over-the-top Android fans who want to rant and rave about their platform's perceived superiority. In the end its all about experience. If the way Android handles multitasking doesn't offer any difference in experience for you, then it doesn't really matter for you. You make your decision based on other criteria that are important TO YOU.
Don't worry about what other people think.
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Nope. Multitasking is basically the same, only now selected apps can fetch data on the background, but there's still no true multitasking. It's like the app turns on by itself for a minute and then exits on it's own again. It doesn't stay active! The example you gave with Safari is excellent. Not only that, if you touch the screen while the webpage is loading it will stop loading until you take your finger off the screen.
You can't download something in the background while you are doing something else, for example. With Android, I download my tv shows via torrent while I browse the web or do something else. This is impossible with iOS.
As much as the OP wants it, iOS has no true multitasking and Android does, and it is much much better. That's the way things are. He is a casual user, so he just doesn't get it.
I can even turn the screen off in my Android device and let it download stuff for hours without a problem, just like a computer.
Google Now is another example of true multitasking.
This is not true - at least not on my 5S. I just tested it.
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Here's my view on multitasking.
First and foremost, my phone is a mobile device. Not a desktop computer. Therefore the number one thing for me is that my device works for as long as possible without having to charge. I don't want to be tethered to a wall.
That being said - I'd venture to guess that most of us use our mobile devices to consume information. Whether that's emails for work, news articles, music, movies, games - our smartphones are consumption devices. Occasionally we are forced to work on them - but even you with the Note 3 can't tell me you'd rather pick up your smartphone to compose a lengthy email or put together a report over a laptop or even a tablet.
So - as far as consuming information as efficiently as possible, iOS does an excellent job imo. Apps are not kept running in the background needlessly - information is updated on various schedules based on connectivity (to wifi or to power) and use case (i.e. I check flipboard at lunch every day - therefore when I open the flipboard app at lunch today, the content will be fresh as soon as I open it).
This is extremely valuable and shouldn't be discounted. Can I download a torrent, switch to a youtube video and watch it while the torrent downloads? Well no....(actually....I could - but my torrent set up doesn't involved downloading anything to my phone). However, could I airplay a youtube video or WatchESPN and then continue to surf? Why yes I can.
So while many of you bash Apple - (and even throw out year + old arguments), recognize that there is value in the way Apple handles multitasking. And also realize that those of you who torrent to your phones are in the minority.