I think the issue here is we need to get into the mind set that most updates going forward are going to be relatively minor. Think less "OS 9 to OS 10" and more "Win95 to Win98." Frankly, that's a good thing. Minor updates cause less confusion due to less radical UI changes, it's easier to market one or two key features a year instead of many, and it (usually) allows for fewer major bugs and glitches. I've really not found any major issues with Sonoma so far, just annoyances. If this is what we can expect going forward, then I'm fine with that.
I'm also far more interested in new features that really improve the QoL. I'm reminded of the "300 new features" of Leopard and most of them were listing literally every change ever, even if it was something like "new icon for random app."