my experience differs to your's I guess, my WF-1000XM4's connect as needed and as they are multi point switching isn't really an issue for me.
your pro tip is irrelevant, as Macrumors also covers non Apple content such as major Android releases, headphones from other brands in comparisons (as shown in this story). I do apologise if I mentioned brands other than Apple.
"It's so overly complicated, and not in a "Tesla / Rivian / Lucid features buried deep in the menu system" sense." You know in Android you can access app settings from the app, or a long press of the icon? You don't need to scroll to the bottom of the settings list, then scroll some more in a different app (Settings)?
But I digress, the Sony app running on my Pixel 9 Pro XL, and iPhone 16 pro works fine for me, and it's easy to control the headphones, rather than clicking a tiny circled I in the bluetooth settings.
Sent from MacBook Pro M4 Pro (Admittedly typed on a Logitech keyboard, I hope that doesn't disqualify me).