Something else: at what focal length do you recommend? I was thinking about 50-60mm for a rough guess (don't have my camera with me at the moment).
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It depends on the results you want. I generally shoot portraits on a 1.5x crop factor body with a 35-70mm zoom, but where I zoom depends on what result I want to achieve.
Also, I will probably be using flash in a darkish room. I'll get bouncers (not the party ones), I think for a classic portrait would be light from slightly to the sight and a bit higher than the person's face.
In general, my key is 45 degrees from the subject (but the side depends a *lot* on the person's face or if they wear glasses,) but a fair bit higher than their head. I generally do fill from near the camera position opposite the key and just a bit higher than the head (ratio depending on results) and a background light for high-key or a hair light for most everything else from the key side and up high for hair and from below and fill side for background. I tend to use a softbox on the key for studio shots and a shoot-through on location these days with regular umbrellas for the fill and a grid for the hair light.
Reflectors are difficult to get right for fill, a fill light is easier to use and easier to get the ratios right on, but if you've got a subject that needs one under their chin, that's easy to do.
Any other thing I should make note of? Thanks!
Read up on short and broad side lighting, and if possible get and read "Light: Science and Magic." Chuck Gardener's site's got some good information on it too.