LTD I think most people agree with you in principle, but the conflict comes about due to the way in which you seem to attribute this progress solely to Apple. I'm an Apple user and I love my Apple products, but Apple is not the only reason for this progress. Remember the Dick Tracy watch communicator? How about a Star Trek tricorder? Batman has too many gadgets for me to list just one. The point is that human imagination paired with technological development drives the evolution of our technical products and gadgets. We've always had a fascination with and drive toward making things smaller, faster, stronger, more efficient, more portable, more powerful, etc. etc..
Apple is doing a great job of making products that fit this need and desire. Android is doing well also. We wouldn't be where we are today in cell phone technology if not for companies like Nokia, Palm, RIM, and Kyocera. Apple never would have released an iPad if not for tablet model laptops that first introduced the possibility of having a touch/tablet experience with a personal computer.
Overall, you make some great points, but as an impartial observer I think people get annoyed/frustrated with your posts because instead of seeing Apple as a player who contributes to the progress of tech you put them on a pedestal as the creator/inventor and sole reason for the evolution of tech. We all know that's just not true because in the world of technology today no one company is responsible for all of the progress that occurs. It's more of a team effort over time. Someone tries something, another person builds on it, etc. etc..