This is getting aggravating. My Watch (S4) and iPhone (11 Pro Max) still show the "this watch not paired with device" message, as does my wife -- however her issue is even worse -- she is getting the mega battery drain that was going on with the earlier betas - her watch has been lasting at most 8-9 hours before it's dead, it's losing a percentage of battery every few minutes -- also, for some reason, the watch app is showing that she has 15 photos synced to her watch (when she has zero synced, and never has). I've paired my watch with her phone as well, and the exact same results (15 photos, showing synced to the favorites album -- and I've even created a new folder in the photos app on her phone, and told the watch app to use that folder). It still shows 15 photos. If I copy a photo to her favorites folder the # of photos on the watch goes up by that # (if I copy one, it goes to 16 -- once I remove the photo from favorites folder, it goes back to 15) -- so it's got 15 "ghost photos" somewhere.
I've reset/wiped her phone and the watch at least six times now, set her device up as new with NO data (no iCloud restore, etc.) and paired the watch, and still get the "watch not paired with this phone" (which I expected), plus the mysterious 15 "ghost" photos that the watch thinks are synced to it.
I am HOPING (but about 5% confident) that iOS 13.1 will fix that, but what's odd is I have the same exact setup (complications, watch face, etc.) 100% spot on with her watch -- mine shows 0 photos, and mine is working fine. Also hers is doing the thing where the number of standby and number of minutes used are exactly the same (hence why I mentioned it was similar to the issue with the earlier Betas of iOS and WatchOS). No matter how many times I pair it, reset it, wipe it, etc. it keeps doing it. I've set it up with NO apps (other than the stock ones) and just sat the watch on the desk for 10 minutes, and when I check usage and standby both show 10 minutes.
I'm going to call Apple tomorrow and see if they have any ideas. I've paired her watch with my phone, my watch with her phone -- my phone/watch work great (aside from the not paired message), and usage/standby are just fine, hers, no matter which watch we pair gets the ghost 15 photos, and usage/standby stays the same.
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