Exactly
I'm sorry, but with how long Apple Pay has been around now, absolutely no reason why they aren't implementing it
In short, for the most part, the only time I really pull out either my bank card or Apple Card is if I'm at a full service restaurant and they don't have either one of those fancy readers with the contactless thing or even better yet, the QR code thing
But the least they could do is offer it as an option and allow one to still pay in the other ways. Many apps I use offer those options as you can put in your own card still, or use Apple Pay (the latter I highly prefer, as sometimes I forget to update the cards I have on file whereas with the Wallet/Apple Pay, the first thing I do immediately when I get a new card is remove my old one and put in my new one so I can use it with AP straight away)