I think you have two real options, both are cheap and protect your data. You have the 3.5mm jack, use it!
Do you concur that plugging my iPhone into my car using just an audio (3.5mm) cable will NOT transfer any data off my iPhone into my car's computer?
Since its 2024, I would suggest a Bluetooth Audio device. Here is a good one that is small and powers itself from the usb port:
amazon.com/dp/B08F74CFM7
This will allow you to connect any device to your car speakers wirelessly over bluetooth.
And because the only connectivity to your device is this 3rd party audio-only device, your Honda can only communicate audio with the Bluetooth adapter, no private data can be shared.
There is something on my Honda (2014) called "Honda Link" or something like that.
Using a Bluetooth player won't get me sucked into that service which I believe is designed to slurp up your phone onto your car's computer so your car is now your iPhone?
Up to you to decide to use your existing iPhone, the old iPhone, or some other playback device with Bluetooth.
If I could be 1000% certain that what I do keeps my iPhone data on my iPhone, I would probably prefer using my iPhone 11 Pro max since it does have cellular service, and when I drive cross-country, if I wanted to listen to a terrestrial radio station via their website, then I could also do that.
But aside from that, an MP3 player or my iPhone 15 Pro Max without a SIM car would do. (Or I am still kind of interested in the iPod Nano and iPod Touch)
Now, if you are ok with wires and want a dedicated playback device in order to not need to mess with your phone to change music, I would highly suggest an MP3 player based off of the Rockbox software. Older mp3 players like the Sandisk Sansa come to mind. USB port for charging and data transfer, micro SD slots for storage and a fully featured but easy to use/read UI.
I'm totally fine with cables, and that is really all i want to deal with. (I don't trust Bluetooth or wireless, plus you supposedly get better audio quality with wired speakers.)
In the end, I prefer simple... ;-)
As far as MP3 player vs iPod Nano vs iPod Touch vs iPhone, I think it comes down to whatever lets me best manage my music.
For all of this to reach my end goal, I need a way to be able to listen to music in the many ways listed above.
Sometimes I am in the mood for an entire album (e.g. Hotel California), sometimes I am in the mood for a genre (Classic Rock), sometimes I am in the mood for a specific sub-genre (80's Classic Rock), sometimes I am in the mood for a self-created sub-genre (e.g. Fall, Friday-night, 80's, Classic Rock), sometimes I am in the mood for an emotion (e.g. Sunday night music), and you get the point.
(What I am NOT into is "ADHD mode" where I go from Kenny G to AC/DC to Hank Williams to the Go Go's. WTF people?!)
It's good to know I have choices - just still apprehensive about giving Honda, Honda's partners, and the NSA even more data on me!!
Good luck welcome to the 20th century![]()
It soooooo scaaaaaary... :O