Well look at it this way - that is a beautiful girl, with a beautiful smile. If I was her dad, I'd be really bummed I'd missed the shot. All it would have taken was a second to think about metering. If you can't do it then, then what makes you think you'll do it under pressure when it counts?
She is a beautiful girl, and I have literaly hundreds of beautiful photos of her. I'm not bummed in the slightest that I missed the shot, we were camping, both of us woke up earlier than my wife and son, so we got out of the trailer, walked down to the lake's edge to have a look, I took the camera with me on a whim, had it set to aperture priority and evaluative metering, and just sorta told her to smile and grabbed the shot. This was not a planned photo, or anything like that at all. Sometimes I'll do that! Other times I'm looking for a photograph rather than a snapshot and I'll be very careful about how the camera is set, what the background is like, and how the lighting is, this just wasn't one of those times. Normally I'd have my P&S with me, but we just bought the lens the afternoon prior so I took the DSLR instead so I could check the new glass out.
My point was we (MYSELF INCLUDED!) need to make sure we have good habits which include thinking about metering and exposure, BEFORE pressing the shutter.
And I do, but as I've explained, I'm not always looking for a work of art. I have cameras with me alot of the time, just so I can make quick snapshots and document things I did with the kids. It's not like I'm trying to be lazy, but like I said I normally use a P&S camera in these kinds of settings, this time I happened to bring the DSLR for fun, so I was using it more or less like a P&S.
And as far as I read, this was a new LENS, not a new camera. So no excuse for not knowing where the spot meter or exposure adjustment button/knob/toggle is (actually it needs some fill flash to brighten her eyes, but that's a different topic...)
New lens as of Friday the 21st of August. New camera as of Thursday the 13th of August. I know where the spot meter setting is, right next to the viewfinder, but again I was not worried about that.
Strive for excellence, we have enough mediocrity in the world already. That little girl deserves it.
I will strive for excellence when I'm out to get a real photograph, and you're right my daughter deserves it, luckily she has it as my wife is a professional portraitist.
I guess what I'm trying to get across is that I understand what you are trying to say here; and I would tend to agree that digital has made photographers more lazy. It is easy to see where you're going wrong now, and see it immdeiately. Many shooters won't pay as close attention to what they're doing because of this. But my point is this: does it really matter?
I know I don't personally care if someone elses photo is over exposed, underexposed, or perfectly exposed. Much less when they willingly say that they took a quick snapshot. Not everyone is trying to be a professional photographer, DSLR's are cheap these days so a lot of people buy them and use them like P&S cams. That's fine by me.
The other thing that affordable DSLR's have done to the photography world is make everyone think they are a professional. How many people do you know who are trying to shoot weddings with a Rebel and some cheap consumer glass, and almost nothing in terms of photographic experience? I know plenty, and I'd be one of them were I to try and shoot weddings or family portraits etc (save the cheap equipment qualification). I'm under no illusion that I'm a pro, or even a good photographer for that matter. I'm not really trying to become one. I'm actually an Emergency Medical Technician/Student who works in the non-profit sector in a clinic which donates health care to homeless people. And I'm working on going to Medical School. I do like photography and taking pictures, I like electronics even more, but I'm certainly no pro, and I'm not even trying to become one, nor am I particularly concerned with spending a lot of time trying to master photography right now. I've got bigger fish to fry you might say.
My wife is a pro-photographer in the sense that she makes money from photography and has a good base of clients who are returning to her for photographic needs, and referring her services to others. She gets about 5 or 6 referrals per month, so we felt it was appropriate to upgrade her gear recently. My wife follows your mantra of always striving for perfection with her clients. But I'll let you in on something, even my wife likes to just point and shoot sometimes when we're out with the family. She realizes that not every shot of the kids needs to have perfect lighting, metering, or even composition. Those pictures are for us to look back on later and remember the times we had, not marvel at mine and my wife's photographic prowess. We'd rather snap a quick photo and get back to playing with the kids.
And that's more or less what I did here.
No offense taken, you explained yourself well, and I respect what you said. But on the other hand, I'll respectfully keep doing what I'm doing. When I have a photo that I'm particularly proud of, I'll post it as such. But this one was meant purely to demonstrate the vignetting I was getting with the AF-S Nikkor 24-70 f/2.8 ED, which is one fantastic lens, I must say.
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