Personally, I agree Apple make the best hardware / casings / presentation in the laptops, but the real killer of these is they use outdate / old CPU's, which are then overpriced in the shops, yes they've been updated of course. The current MBA should be using the "i" series CPU's which were release 2010, even if the MBA has to be slightly larger. Now SB might be the new standard when the next MBA is due for a refresh.
As for graphics, I have always been a fan of discrete (separate) graphics GPU with its own RAM, this way if some major hardware fault occurs your not killing the CPU/GPU in one hit. The problem with shared graphics is the video ram is taken from your system ram. Maybe apple should make macs with the option to switch from onboard to discrete???? As for Apple I believe they use two extremes high powered lots of features of portable with limited features. I think they need some more features in their MacBook Air's - backlit keyboard for a start, and an ethernet port.
I think you need a MacBook Pro. Apple can't possibly fit a discrete GPU into the Airs without either completely killing battery life or turning the machine into a personal heater.