None of you get the point of android. It's about making your own experience. If you don't like the home screen, thats fine, download one of the others on the marketplace. Put on a custom skin and it feels like a whole new phone. If you dont like the music app they give you, download the 3 player (pronounced cubed). They don't tell you what you can and cannot have on your phone, yeah the app store is a mess thats true. It needs reorganized bad. But its not like the apple app store is perfect either. You can find the top and most popular apps, anything else i lost unless you want to get on a computer or search for a specific app.
I haven't tried the nexus one, but i love the droid. The only thing i hate about it is there is no music app on your computer to sync to, and its a little bulky. The screen looks awesome and i haven't had any problems with the phone. I usually buy a new phone every couple of months cause i end up hating the phone i have, i had the BB storm and the LG dare for like 3 months each, and sold them cause they sucked. I was looking to upgrade to the iphone later in the year or a new windows phone cause i am looking for a phone that focuses on music too. OS 4 looks decent, but android is still a little better. If they don't make a drastically different OS 4 for ipad though, i am gonna be pissed.