This is true. Problem is to be honest I stopped needed Android updates around Android 7-8. At that point I felt the system was mature enough and whatever they would come up with would not matter super much for me so I am willing to use a device that does not get updated in terms of "new" features as long as it receives regular security updates. iOS/iPadOS is to some extent a different story for me in the sense that there are things that I do not enjoy in iOS (Ridiculous fragmented Settings app, Camera settings not in camera, complex and unintuitive gestures (at this point you can trigger either control center or notifications by mistake when you want the other one) but I also highly doubt that Apple would change the system the way I want it so I am meh on the whole thing. I would prefer if they change their release cycle from a year to year and half and produce more stable versions though because I feel like they release something then they spend 5-6 months to fix the bugs they produced and then they release the new thing again. It seems to me that iOS/iPadOs calls for huge reengineering and overhaul for stability and extensibility.
I tend to agree here. I am not arguing the benchmarks results that we see. Problem is I see those numbers and I am blown away. Then I use the device and I do not feel the same way. Maybe it is because I cannot multitask the way I want due to lack of RAM or maybe because there are not a lot of apps that take advantage of these powerful chips. The thing is that on numbers seems OMG and then it is like - ok great table to take notes with the pencil, maybe for some creators working with Procreate/Lumafusion/Affinity. Overall I cannot come up with a lot of apps that would call for this powerful CPU where I as an end user would feel the difference.
RAM I would feel because even with 4GB RAM I encounter tabs and apps reloads often enough to get annoyed and to not treat the iPad as a serious multitasking machine.
You raise 2 interesting points.
1. Concerning Android, I agree with you for phones, there are not many new features (even if I really like dark mode in Android 10) and apps stay compatible for several years after the last update, but the problem is that manufactures don't keep updating security after they stop updating the OS. Even Samsung, who is probably now the best in this regard, only gives you a 4th year of security updates after 3 OS updates. Personally I am fine with being a couple of years without security. Most people have no idea how security works so they are scared if they know that the security is not up to date, as if a virus could enter their phone out of the blue. But mobile OS are much more closed systems and unless you install some sketchy apps the main way of hacking is via social engineering (passwords, fishing etc.). But again those same people are often vulnerable to social engineering, so it's probably for the best that they are scared....
Concerning tablets however, and Samsung tablets in particular, it's a different story. Since I bought the S7+ this summer, Samsung has been constantly updating it with new features, such as, among many others, the ability to use it as wireless second display... with audio (so basically also as a powerful speaker for a laptop), using wireless dex (I can wireless DeX my phone into my tablet with the press of a button), and just this morning an update gave it scribble capabilities all over the OS... So Samsung tablets are the exception
2. As for the second point, the issue is iPadOS limitations that prevent you from really multitasking, even without considering the lack of fully featured apps. Multitasking is not just split screen, there is much more to it... For me there are 2 main limitations:
- proper external monitor support, which is hopefully coming
- proper file system support, and by this I mean being able to choose which app opens which file, so that you can work entirely from the file app as file explorer / finder, and not send things from app to app etc.
I don't know to which extend Apple can implement this on their own or would need developers to update their apps, but that's a major limitation when it comes to working efficiently...