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I don't know how many of you do some serious printing, but if you aren't doing serious photography, graphic design, etc, then get something else for a low-end printer. I have had an epson 13x19 1160 since before 2000 and Epson came back just to write drivers for it in 10.2. I have also owned several small printers from epson, and canon, and two HPs. Needless to say the only ones that are either sold or are still around are Epson. the HP's Died, and the Canon started getting ink everywhere. The 1160 is still my primary printer. the newer large format epsons get even better color matching and my 1160 STILL looks better than most photo printers from other brands..
Now, thats said. Epsons are not meant for bulk office printing. the inks do run out faster. they also last MUCH longer on paper. The colorsync is unmatched and the papers are next to none. If you are doing word docs and the occasional photo, buy a small HP or Canon.
Now for large format, HP actually makes some great printers. I would put HP and Epson about neck and neck on this (24in and greater).
I understand your frustrations, i went through them myself. But do some research before you buy. If you have time to get on here and type a complaint, then you have time to find out that most positive reviews that come in for Epson are from people who are doing some exacting and demanding printing on a small scale for fine prints. Otherwise, get a canon or an HP. My mom loves her Canon. It also works great with her digital camera.
Oh and for the record, I spent 90% as much on HP cartidges as i did on Epson, so i see no REAL complaint for that considering the amount of quality and lightfastness you will get from Epson inks. And if you buy generic inks and you printer dies, don't complain, you get what you pay for.
and DON'T buy a laser for photos (if you plan on selling them or putting them in a gallery). period. unless you have 15 grand or more to spend. for graphic design proofs and color emulation, go ahead.
*disclaimer* obviously these are my experience and the experience of the many print and photography professionals i have worked with over the years, i make no claim that everything that works for me or them is perfect for you. we all have different needs and mixed use preferences.
hope this was informative
technocoy