What features do you have to turn on?
The „Pro font“ in the camera app? DI? ProMotion?
I can’t think of many features I’d have to turn on manually.
I surely miss your point.
The cost of an iPhone didn’t change much since the X in the states. The differences are made pretty clear in my opinion. The 13P is a big upgrade from a Xs, the 14P not from the 13P, but that’s self explanatory. A 1.5k phone can be used for more than a year or two.
I don’t think the problem is the phone but your expectations. If you aren’t happy with the jump from Xs to 13P/14P, that doesn’t mean that the Xs was peak iPhone. Far from it imo.
Not sure why my own choice and opinion offend you but again, I would rather have my XS Max than my current phone. My opinion, my choice. I don't really care about everything you just listed.