Hello again,
I was really really leaning toward the D80. It is a solid camera. In every single review I read comparing the two, the D80 won by far.
I just had to bring myself down to earth and tell myself that I am never going to be a pro, so I needed to get the camera that would be the best, without breaking the bank.
You sound like you might be younger than me, so if I were young (without mortgage, and a husband that also likes expensive toys) then I would go for the D80, but you won't be making the wrong decision if you choose the XTi. As I said, both have the power to make you happy.
Your right, I am 22. My problem is not spending the money, since I have few bills, my problem is saving up enough. Once I have saved up enough, i'll go get it and the lenses that I want. I'm leaning toward the D80 out of my initial choices, but don't want to rule out the Canon Xti. I've pretty much scratched the Sony Alpha off my list! Thanks to all for helping me narrow it down a little!!