Beejive is a nice application but I still do have problems connecting (read post on spinning wheel).
i never have problems connecting to anything (with the exception of Facebook Chat). i am on WiFi at home, and mostly just regular EDGE everywhere else i go.
connecting to AIM, Yahoo (x2), Gtalk, and myspaceIM
wow... you mustve put alot of work in that list of pros and cons... awsome man!!!1
you're pretty quick to judge, i didn't see you put a pros/cons list either, but congrats for the +1 on your post count.
anyway - BeeJive is the winner by far here. i never experience crashing, it connects fast, and stays connected. it opens rather quickly - and if you don't use a background (which is ugly IMO) it will stay quick.
IM+ on the other hand, IMO, is a want-to-be BeeJive. The UI isn't that great, and is a little confusing to me. i also experienced crashing + slow loading/connecting times.
BeeJive is a no brainer, especially at it's lower cost. There are also a bunch of cracked .ipa's out there for the jailbreaker