I'm someone coming at this from a different angle. For me it is more important to have a fairly current up-to-date and reasonably powerful Mac that will do everything I require of it than it is to have the latest iPhone. I spend more time at home than I did in the (pre-pandemic) past. In general I don't spend a lot of time on the phone, it is not glued to my hand and/or always in my pocket. Some of the time I go out somewhere and realize belatedly that, oh, gee, I forgot the phone and left it at home. Too bad.....no harm done.
My preference is to spend my time and money on having a current Mac which works well in all of the ways I need and want to use a computer. I do appreciate the synchronicity of the Apple system, which is why I use it.
I don't care what other people are using or the possible age of such products when I see them out-and-about. Whatever works for them, well, that's what matters. Everyone has his or her own lifestyle and tools which are their choices for enhancing that lifestyle.