Finally, I don't want targeted ads. I don't want any ads at all. I remember when the movie Blade Runner first came out. It was striking as there were TV screens everywhere, and ads on everything. It was quite a shock, feat the time could believe that was a possible future. It didn't look so good... Now we live there. Life is not about consumerism, it isn't about how much you've been able to acquire or how you've been able to acquire products that really define you, or express who you are. Life is about much deeper things...
The thing is, how do you get this "free" internet without ads? You think you'd be on this web site right now, complaining about the commercialism of the web, if ads weren't paying the cost of running this web site (and turning a profit for the owners)?
Maybe you grew up in the UK when there was only the BBC. You paid a tax for having a TV, you got BBC in return. No ads, quality programing. Seems fine to me. I grew up in the US, where nearly all broadcasting has always been commercial. That Blade Runner "future" was the American "present."
I remember the web when it was a predominantly non-commercial place. It was very nice in its way, really quite quaint by today's standards, but not nearly as useful as it is today. Once the world of commerce realized there was a way to make a buck, the web was off to the races.
The Internet as we know it today costs money. A lot of money. Now, if a business, educational institution, social cause, or government determines that the web is a cheaper/more effective way of disseminating information and interacting with its customers/user population then mailing out printed matter... they'll pay the cost. If someone has a hobby/passion, then they may pay the cost. But if someone wants to make a living publishing information or entertainment on the web, how do they do that? They can get people to pay for the service in some way, or they can attract an audience and sell that audience to advertisers (often, of course, a combination of both).
Whether selling physical goods or information/entertainment, you have to attract people to your place of business... it can't all be done by word-of-mouth. Advertisers have to go where their audience is. That's what "targeting" means. If nobody in your target audience reads the Wall Street Journal, then you don't advertise in the Wall Street Journal. Advertisers pay higher rates for efficient advertising, so if you resist targeting, it means the advertising-supported web sites you visit are getting paid lower rates. It's possible that you'll see
more ads, because quantity has to make up for quality.
Now, I consider making a living to be one of the deeper things in life. If you're not able to eat, if you don't have a secure roof over your head, you probably won't have the time to interact in a meaningful way with the people around you, or contemplate the meaning of life. You can live the life of a hunter/gatherer or subsistence farmer, do a good job of it, and have enough time to contemplate the deeper things in life. Maybe you start bartering some of your surplus crops for goods you don't have the time or expertise to produce (say, steel tools so you can sow a larger field)... Well, now you live in the ugly world of commerce. And at one, fundamental level, the only reason it's as ugly as it is is that there are so many of us on this planet, and all of us have to eat.