Interestingly, your points/arguments can be said from either side. As a professional "geek" IT person, I've spent the last 20 years supporting Windows and, on and off, Mac's, and from MY point of view, everything you stated can be said about the Mac OS. IMHO, it's not intuitive, window navigation doesn't do what you think it should do. How many years did the green window "maximize" button do nothing but make the window somewhat larger instead of filling the whole screen?
Here is something I found about Mac OSX from a Windows' users standpoint. It's a bit aged, and some of the points no longer are meaningful (since Apple finally got around to making it work right), but it's still humorous and worth a read if you need a chuckle:
“I just bought a new Mac mini this weekend, three things I love about OS X
1. The green plus button, the most broken implantation of maximize on any operating system. It’s so broken, you'd think it was designed to do something different if it wasn't for the fact it actually works correctly in Firefox, but that's the only program. In most other programs it feels as though the green plus button is more of a wild card feature where some completely random function will be performed on the targeted window. It’s different every time. The sense of thrill you get every time you click it, not knowing if the windows will maximize, minimize, close, delete itself, or brick the system is really quite exhilarating.
2. I love how you can only re-size a window from the bottom right corner. Other operating systems make it too easy to resize windows, it almost feels like your cheating. In OS X resizing a windows takes skill and cunning, it’s no simple task, especially after recovering from the chaos of pressing the green plus button a couple times. It almost makes a game out of what would be a trivial task on another operating system. For hard mode I like to press the green plus button until the windows is actually larger than the screen, which makes it almost impossible to try and resize the window back to a manageable size.
3. I love the font rendering in OS X. Specifically the level of blur factor that no other operating system can imitate. In OS X I don't feel like I'm reading text, but trying to interpret a hidden message from a blur of text. As a person of higher intelligence I enjoy the good mind game from time to time, especially when trying to interpret OS X's blur text while reading the news or email online, normally quite a boring and easy task. I also love how my vision seems relatively sharper after a good 5 minutes squinting at my mac reading text, as if you have been staring through a magnifying glass or wearing somebody else's glasses.
I initially bought a Mac mini as a simple machine to write iOS apps, where I'd use my PC for everything else. Well now it seems I spend more time fixing and tweaking things on the Mac to get xCode to actually install than I ever did on a PC. I think I'm becoming addicted to it. Why, just today, I've spend 3 hours in a row downloading updates just to have the mac reboot without installing them, prompting me to download them again before I can install xCode, which should total 6 hours. Time flies when you’re having fun.”
(a follow-up post)
“The features I like the best have to be in the way the Dock works.
I love playing the little game where you have to guess which of your applications are actually running since there's no notification for it.
I also love that the applications are completely separate from their open files, so when I click on Photoshop the 'window' opens but all of my documents are hidden. Then I get to poke around on the right side of the dock trying to find whatever I was working on. This isn't much of an issue since when I'm using applications like Photoshop I'm not usually working on documents, but rather enjoying the stylized gray OS menus.
Finder works amazing as well. It's a breeze to navigate to InDesign's preference folder three times a day to delete them since InDesign won't launch again. I prefer the 3-pane list system, because it's always helpful to see the folders I'm not currently interested in take up 66% of my working space. It's also great that I can highlight certain documents and folders, it makes it a lot easier to navigate around the hidden index files it creates for every file.
But for me, nothing is better than the gray bar at the top of the screen. It's always there, and always the same color, no matter what my wallpaper is. It reminds me that regardless of how unique I try to be, I'm always just "one of them". It's great to just stare at while I'm waiting 1-2 minutes for my Flash drive actually eject (another amazing feature) or massaging my wrist due to the carpal tunnel syndrome brought on by the ergonomics of the mighty mouse.”