I've been considering turning it off because it only works intermittently for me. About 50% of the time it won't send properly as an iMessage and will send as a text several minutes later which delays conversations (though the odd thing is the other person will often then get an iMessage AND an sms message). It's incredibly annoying.
So here's my question, is the timeout because of the person you are sending the iMessage to? or is it on your phone that is sending the iMessage?
I'm having the same problems recently. On day 1, imessage worked GREAT!! i loved it, loved seeing delivered and that they read a message.
However now i'd say only about 35% of the time will an i message go through. And even then, thats only to a few contacts. some contacts i can get iMessage to work just fine and i see "Delivered" in about a second. However with certian users i get the 5 minute timeout.
I have noticed that they are mainly verizon users(i have AT&T). However as most people are saying that there's only the timeout when a user is on a call. With me i know the other user isn't on a call, we both have 4 or 5 bars on 3G, and i still get the timeout. I was even on wifi and got the timeout with them.
But they can send an iMessage to me just fine so i'm guessing its their phone?
Also i was reading people on here saying that once you hit the bubble to "send as sms" it stays that way until iMessage rears its ugly head again by the incoming recipent. Mine just seems to do whatever it wants to. Sometimes it sticks, sometimes i have to hit that EVERY message.