I have a first generation iPad mini (A5) and a fourth generation iPad (A6X) that both beg to differ. As soon as an iPad gets left behind on iPadOS, things stop working right; especially if you have newer Apple products on current OSes. Furthermore you stop being able to run the latest versions of apps, which have varying degrees of impact on functionality (especially when the apps are connecting to and utilizing a service as their central function).
Granted. But even then, we have Intel Macs with 4GB of RAM able to run macOS AND still have more than a single application open. We have Intel AND M1 Macs able to do the same with both 8GB and 16GB RAM capacities. The idea that only ONE app gets 5GB and the OS takes whatever is left over (which it honestly ought to not need all of) still equates to under-utilized RAM no matter how you slice it.
So what you're saying is that iPadOS isn't handling memory management anywhere near as efficiently as macOS. I get how swapping works. I'd think that the concept would make sense to employ on something like iPadOS, given that Apple wants me to consider it as my next dominant computing platform (over macOS and Windows).
Seeing as the 2018 iPad Pro had 4GB of RAM in all sub-1TB models and 6GB of RAM in 1TB models, I agree that it would be odd of them to put a mid-generation dividing line based on RAM. That being said, that has been the most common dividing line in the history of iOS/iPadOS. Hell, it's why A8/X iPads are still running the latest iPadOS version while A8 iPhones and iPod touches are not.
Respectfully, I disagree completely here. Certainly, the two sizes almost equate to two different experiences, but you pay extra for longevity and longevity isn't insignificant when it comes to a device that is eventually going to be discarded.
For the record, I never said anything to contradict nor disagree with that. But neither of us knows what iPadOS 16's requirements will be whereas we do know iPadOS 15's and we know that A9X iPad Pros are at least along for that ride and that said ride is lasting until at least next fall. I didn't want to categorically assume A9X iPad Pros were going to still be supported because, for all I know, Apple could impose a different dividing line that has nothing to do with RAM. Certainly, I'd think that if they do limit out A9 based devices, but not all A9 devices, the first generation 12.9" iPad Pro, being the beefiest of them all, would still make the cut.