Agreed, itunes has gotten bloated and the features that have been added do not increase the functionality (I'm looking at you Ping). Yet while it may be bloated, I've not really found another product that does what it does so well.
I was spoiled with the itunes/iPhone integration, when I moved to an android device, I so how meager the offerings were for a mechanism to help sync my music
Agree here. I have two words for what I like about itunes: smart playlists. Even currently semi-broken for ios devices it's still better than what most other software I know about can do.