I guess I'm not old school enough - or I just don't do enough on my smartphone......
Really I just let stuff sync in the background if need be. Photos, music, documents are all managed and synced across all my devices without any input from me.
Sure if I wanted to email a document I would have to go into the document app and "share" via email - which is backwards if you've always done it the other way, but no less convenient implementation-wise. (obviously the multiple attachment thing sucks, but that's not the point here).
I still say it all comes down to what works for you. Apple's ecosystem (the auto syncing across Apple devices) works VERY well for me. I take photos on my iPhone, they appear on my iPad and iMac. I buy a song or album on my iPad, its on iTunes match and I can play it from my iMac, AppleTVs, iPhone - hell even my HTC One.
Granted, if I downloaded songs from some other source or ripped a CD I just bought, I'd have to add in using iTunes to sync. All these other "options" or "choices" don't factor into my decision because they aren't a part of my use case anymore.
Sure I can download apps and set things up to work similarly with an Android phone and Windows desktop and even Roku boxes.....but its not the same. Its not built in/doesn't happen seamlessly. That's why I'm fine giving up the "options" to use a variety of services - because the one I use through iOS and OSX works flawlessly for my use case.
Like I said, my uses simply don't dictate the need for all those options. And of course, I'll get the "well just because you won't use it doesn't mean someone else won't" and that's true....but to them I'd say get an Android. For Apple to open iOS/OS X up as some suggest or want, it would require going against the original philosophy and appeal of the iPhone and ecosystem in the first place. For me, the clutter of so many additional services is actually UNDESIRABLE.
Besides, that's why each platform exists - to offer different experiences. I don't understand why people get upset when they hear "Go get an Android" in response to complaints about Apple. Android does things VERY well and has far fewer trade offs than it once did. In my mind, both are mature OSes and are very good, however different, options for different users.
Agreed. The Apple ecosystem does work well. I just always find myself trying to do something that goes against the format of the ecosystem, which is why I was jailbroken 95% of the time.
As far as integrated vs apps. I'm not really concerned with that. The apps that replace any iOS service run seemless for me.