I just ignore it. I use folders to group apps in a meaningful way for me and for me that works better than the App Library. It doesn’t offend me but it is completely redundant for my way of working
I'm in exactly the same boat as you. I don't like hiding away any apps and don't like the automation of the App Library so I just work with folders. I love the convenience of actually having all of my apps on one single screen, arranged exactly the way I want them to be. It makes it much quicker and intuitive for me to find what I'm looking for on a day-to-day basis.