Awesome! Now just ban MySpace and Facebook from all my friends' computers please
Facebook serves one purpose: to remember high school--which I worked long and hard to forget.
MySpace serves... no purpose at all that I can see. I already have better email and IM services.
I've tried both, and I just don't get what my friends see in them.
Well I don't see what people see in MySpace either, as it just seems like an assault to the senses (and not in a good way) to me...
BUT -- Facebook is entirely different. It's almost Apple-like in it's implementation (not quite, of course, but closer to Apple than any other social networking site). And it really doesn't have to be about remembering high school friends you want to forget, or getting requests to add stupid apps to your page, or participating in lame list memes, or requiring a complete lack of privacy, or any of the other things people complain about Facebook. It CAN be those things, if you allow it. However many people fail to understand that it can also be tweaked and customized to your heart's content to be exactly the experience you want it to be. YOU have the choice to block or limit people, apps, your news feeds, whatever. I personally have it set up to block almost all applications, and limited my news feeds to see only news from people I actually WANT to know about. Because of this, I'm a lot more connected to the friends I really care about, know a lot more about them, and have gotten better relations with them because of it. I've also met new people, and participated in activities that I wouldn't have known about otherwise. I'm made aware of important events and people's birthday's (VERY helpful), and get to learn so many new things every day. If I ever get a little tired of Facebook, I just don't log in that day. Now worries. It's always there whent I want to return to it.
Facebook and sites like it only work for you if you're a very social person, OR if you are at least interested in what other people are doing. If you're not that social, and don't care about what other people are doing, Facebook definitely isn't for you. Also, your general experience has a lot to do with the kind of people you're actually friends with that also use it. I'm lucky and have a lot of great friends on FB who are always doing fascinating things and have fun and witty stuff to say, or have interesting activities to bring to my attention that I normally wouldn't know about. I can see how someone's Facebook experience would be much different if their friends just weren't that interesting...
No one has to like Facebook or want to join it, but it baffles me why some don't "get" why other people might enjoy it or find it useful. Just because it's not for you, doesn't mean others aren't getting a lot of usefulness out of it.