Putting aside all the Steve Jobs talk (because honestly it's been long enough, and Apple is far more successful now than when he was around, so clearly they're still doing well)...
I agree regarding Samsung designing a better-looking product this time around.
Personally, I'd rather have a device like this:
or like this:
rather than one like this, where you have a non-rectangular screen with a blotch permanently missing from it:
Not just from a design perspective, but from a usability perspective; this design will force white bars and other workarounds in order to prevent your content from being blocked. I'm sure the solution that they have to this problem is great, but it's a problem that should never have existed in the first place.
So yeah. Samsung won design this time. I understand that the hype is now high for these new products, but we sometimes must put aside our own brand loyalty and give credit where it's due.
The best thing Apple could have done with the design to make the notch less noticeable would have been to make the UI render only outside the "ear" area, making the ear area exist only for the status bar... but they couldn't do that because OLED burn-in.