I think this "problem" of yours will never exist. It's not like iOS will ever be exactly like Android nor vice versa. Adopting features from each other that help make the experience better for both OS-es doesn't mean they'll both suddenly become the same exact thing. They would still be unique in their own ways of implementing said features.
I was speaking in general - yes to some, no to others. I'll explain below.
To dissuade these desired features that users of iOS devices want sounds like just another excuse from you to apologize for Apple's lack of and/or refusal to add said features.
How am I dissuading? I'm simply presenting an opinion. I wasn;t aware that the posters I was discussing with here had the power to make these changes or that I had the power to talk them out of it....
Let's take Control Center, for example. If Apple gave the users the power to customize what toggles they want there (something often requested by myself and others) to add/remove even re-order the Control Center, how does that suddenly make iOS' Control Center any less unique? It still looks, feels (pulling up instead of pulling down in Android) differently. There is no "problem" here that I can see.
I quite agree, adding customization to CC would be great. I'd love to hear what controls you'd add being that you're so adamant about it. For curiousity sake. It might interest you to learn (though I don't know whether or not you have an iOS device currently) that an app called "Launcher", which was pulled from the app store for allowing other apps to be launched from within its NC widget, will be back in the app store tomorrow. Seems like it's got some pretty cool functionality and its exciting to see that Apple is lessening restrictions on widgets over time.
iOS has added plenty of features that Android created and/or made popular. Likewise, Android has taken plenty of features iOS created and/or made popular. Yet no "problem" has come of this of people fearing iOS and Android are becoming the same or losing their own unique-ness. Quite the contrary. People have warmed to adding similar features to both OS-es. Android lately adding lock-screen notifications? It's great. Is it unique? It sure is. You can expand the notification, the cards look way different than the way iOS does it. Still unique.
Yup, completely agree.
I said this before, how much more satisfied might users be if Apple allowed even more freedom? Even just a little bit. How might users benefit from allowing to set default mail app, or default browser, or default map/navigation app? People are already happy about 3rd party keyboards. Why would there be any fear of losing unique-ness to allow more?
There would be none.
Sure, I agree with all that's said here. Now let me explain my comment....
I personally don't believe 3rd Party defaults will ever be allowed by Apple. I've stated the reasons above, chiefly they don't want 3rd Party apps to have power within their sandbox for security reasons and they want to push users towards Apple services because they feel that's what makes an iPhone and iPhone (the experience of Apple hardware + software/services). You can see the security concerns with respect to the keyboards as they are allowed very strict access to the system.
What I meant by my statement really had mostly to do with what I just typed. Namely that Apple and Google have two VERY different ideals in mind with respect to their OSes. Apple is closed and specific with how they want their experience to be achieved. Google is open and let's pretty much anything happen. These two ideals are at complete odds with one another and could never be truly reconciled. Which is why I said that ultimately an iOS/Android hybrid would never really work because what makes iOS, iOS (the close, experience driven "walled garden") and what makes Android, Android (the open nature or pure, unadulterated customization) would never fit together. They would be at odds.
Now, that's not to say each can't continue to adopt certain strengths of the other. Of course that has, can, and will continue to happen - AND ITS GREAT FOR BOTH SYSTEMS.
But there are some inherent things in each OS that drive the identity of that OS and that would not be able to be merged with its counterpart.
Does this make sense? Please don't read anything into this....just take my words for what they say. I tried to articulate my thoughts the best I could. Again, I'm all for additional customization ability within iOS. I just caution people against expecting it to go so far because I believe I understand the drivers behind the identity of each OS. Fair?