I was a full-time Mac user from 1986 through 2013. I've also used MS-DOS and various versions of Windows, from 3.1 through Windows 7, and then Windows 10. When I stopped being a full-time Mac user, I became a full-time Linux user. I still consider Linux (and in particular, Linux Mint) to be my primary, daily-driver OS. Now, I have an M1 MacBook Air.
In parallel with all of the above, I've used several different major release versions of Android on numerous phones, starting with a Samsung Moment (total garbage) and currently a Samsung Galaxy S20 Ultra (amazing device). I also have a Samsung Galaxy Active2 and Galaxy Watch 3 smart watches. Way back when, I also owned an iPhone 4S and used whatever version(s) of iOS it ran for the ~2 years I had it.
As far as the quality of tech, which is in essence what djlythium (who, I presume, is a Star Trek nerd kind of person) started this thread out talking about, I think Apple is running up against the limits of its deeply-ingrained philosophies, as basically given to it by Steve Jobs. They are constrained by the fact that they want to be a hyper-profitable business with its own ecosystem and as close to total control over it as they can get away with (in the sense of Economics 101 and the marketplace) or are allowed to have over it (in the sense of statutory and regulatory restrictions on business). Are their users ill-served by this? Yes, I think they are.
Are they catastrophically ill-served by this? Well, I think that's a bit more complicated of a question to answer, and requires some significant nuance.
In my view, the only OS which presently exists which is truly worthy of full and unflinching respect is the libre-licensed, open-sourced GNU+Linux OS. In my view, no OS (and really, no individual software project) is worthy of too much respect if it restricts its users' rights to do what they will with it, and also to be able to peer-review its code on an "any time, anywhere" basis. The flip side of that coin is that, in certain specific situations like the mainstream palmtop form factor space, Apple's stance on user data privacy, restriction of ads and marketing, etc., make it ethically less bad than, for example, Alphabet's own stance. It's not a perfect situation, and it's also not a circumstance where end users can, let's say, eat their cake and have it to (to go back to the source of that expression) because other platforms which do a "perfect" job with user privacy and rights respect and defense (Purism, for example) do not also offer mainstreamness to their users, meaning the average user would have serious issues trying to use them in lieu of an Android OS- or iOS-based device.
I cannot speak to macOS 10.14.0 → 11.1 (or thereabouts; not sure precisely which version was initially loaded "OOB" on my M1 MBA), and in fact I can only minimally speak to 10.7 → 10.13.6. However, what I have used has always been pretty stable and reliable, though I am aware of their being many issues Mac users have faced in recent times, on both the software and hardware sides of the platform.
I'd also add to that that I think much of what Apple's put out on the "business and professional" side of the house is laughable compared with similarly-spec'd hardware running a real server OS like Debian, Red Hat, etc.