Like you my beloved MBPro, mid 2010, began panicking only recently. It became unusable essentially. Also, like you, I knew nothing about the recall program and Apple would not grant an exception. After about six months of backwards and forwards and being passed through many hands Apple agreed to refund the cost of a new logic board I had installed in 2014 when it failed. The replacement logic board had the same fault but was within the recall period. So Apple paid me $1200.
I bought a new iMac and downgraded the MBPro to the original Snow Leopard (10.6). Since then it's been steady as a rock. Whatever was in subsequent releases was obviously driving the GPU too hard. Apple could fix that with a patch, perhaps, and make a lot of loyal users very happy. I saw threads where someone was trying to get a petition or something together. there would be many 1000's of users affected by this bug. Apple isn't Apple anymore though so the chance of that happening are slim,.
Good luck finding a cure although I can recommend the downgrade. Snow Leopard is a fine OS (IMHO)
Pete
I sent my MBP to Louis Rossmann to repair and it's been perfect since.