I am in a similar boat too:
I am thinking about ordering the XS over waiting for the XR. I have a $25 Apple Store Gift Card and my card company is giving a 5% rebate for the purchase. I also can get it financed for 12 months no interest too.
Is it worth $270 (rounded up and included tax in there) for an extra GB of RAM, dual OIS cameras w/ optical zoom and deeper digital zoom, 5.8" OLED display w/ 1125p resolution and HDR 10/Dolby Vision, stainless steel design, 3D Touch, IP68 water resistance, additional portrait lighting modes, Gigabit LTE speeds?
I have the 8+ right now. I take a ton of photos and videos. The optical zoom is welcomed, but not needed. I prefer to have an OLED display to watch video content, especially if I want to use a device for 2-3 years at the very least. 3D Touch is used for peek and pop or previewing.
The problem, at least I have, is that I want to use a phone for awhile and still want features to enjoy the most out of a phone. Is $270 worth the upgrade considering I would use a phone for so much?
I use my phone for my emails, GPS, calendar, phone calls, social media, YouTube, podcasts, music, web browsing, texting, What's App, ordering stuff, snap photos, take videos, etc.
I am also having issues with my 8+'s screen not being as responsive as before either. Suggestions?