Read up on Apple's Unified Memory Architecture (UMA) and understand that the reason "why all the new systems have integrated CPU, GPU and RAM" is not because "they are in the business of planned obsolescence." UMA is one primary reason why Apple's M chips are so effective.Apple does not want to make the same mistake they made with cMPs. They are in the business of planned obsolescence now and want consumers to trade-in hardware for new every 24 to 36 months. That's why all the new systems have integrated CPU, GPU and RAM. No removable parts equals no upgrades except through Apple.
RAM is a very useful way for chip designers to compute, which is what we buy computers to do: compute. Buyers who looked at the 40-year trend of Macs constantly taking advantage of more and more RAM to compute with and therefore chose to max out RAM when buying new Macs typically are not finding their Macs becoming obsolete in under five years. Only those who choose not to plan logically experience early obsolescence.