I have to say that after following this thread since it was first posted, I'm more confused than ever regarding RAM for Macs with the new M1 chips.
The impression I had from Apple's introduction of their new silicon and MacBook models was that the operating concept with their own M1 chip and architecture was such that the computers use of RAM was fundamentally different from what we've been used to with Intel based Macs.
Therefore the amount of RAM needed would be less for a M1 MacBook than for an otherwise equivalent Intel MacBook, everything else being equal (usage, applications, etc).
And Apple therefore are spec-ing the M1 MacBooks with less RAM as standard, and less RAM as the maximum upgrade.
This all made sense to me until I started reading all of these user opinions which don't consistently support the expectation that 8GB RAM would be sufficient for most users.
For myself, I'm waiting for the next generation iMac, and it will be interesting to see what RAM options are offered for that model, as well as newer MacBooks as they are introduced.
If I was purchasing an M1 MacBook today, I would be spending the extra $200 to get the 16GB RAM, even aside from the debate here. It just seems to me to be a relatively small investment to make, to give the MacBook the best possible capability and given that it can't be upgraded after purchase.
(My own late 2014 iMac has 32GB RAM, which is far beyond what I realistically need for any uses I have, but it was easy to do and inexpensive. Why not?)