Just curious... how much RAM does MacOS take up? Or how much RAM is available to the user?
Let's say MacOS uses 4GB on its own... which leaves you with 4GB for your applications on an 8GB machine.
But if you have a 16GB machine... MacOS still uses the same 4GB... but you would have 12GB for your applications.
In that example... you would have three times as much RAM available to you on a 16GB machine vs an 8GB machine.
RAM is dynamic, and usage is by priority demand. It isn’t as easy as “MacOS uses 4GB all the time”. In fact, you can likely get MacOS down to sub 750MB in true memory usage, if the demand arises.
If you have more, MacOS will use more, mostly for cache or other relatively unimportant things, just to utilize all the resources it has
If you are short on memory, cache or other nonmomentarily critical things will page out to free up space.
You also have to remember that MacOS utilizes memory compression (and very well).
There is a reason that Apple only offers 8GB M1 machines non-BTO. It’s enough for the target audience. If you’re trying to squeeze the machine so hard that you need more memory, then you should wait for whatever is replacing the higher spec pro’s.