I'm multiplatform, but the gist of the topic should still be there...
I have a 1) Windows desktop, 2) Chromebook, 3) 9th gen iPad, and 4) Pixel 6 (has a 6.4" screen, so I think that qualifies as a "large phone"?).
For #1, that's for PC games, but I also end up doing a lot of streaming, basic internet stuff, and productivity stuff there since I have a nice 27" monitor.
For #2, this gets used a lot when I travel, but that's rare these days. Still, it was only $200, so I dare say I still got more than my $$'s worth out of it! If I need to replace it, I will since it's such a joy to use for internet stuff and web browsing!
For #3, I knew it was going to be a glorified gaming device. I still have some apps from before that still work (have been updated), even though they're as old as from 13 years ago! O1H, 64 GB can get restrictive (I still have 40 GB left,), and Apple Arcade ended up being the wrench in the works with my planning. OTOH, this has gotten me to not renew AA when my free trial was over, and me using the iPad less and less has actually been a good thing! In the past, I overdid playing games on my previous iPad. Now, I play for 30 minutes a day, which is fine.
For #4, only use it to check txt messages, and phone stuff. Everything else, I prefer to do via #1.
I'm glad I did get my iPad, but my tempered expectations is what's really making it work. That, along with its relatively low $300 price tag.