Oh dear! Yesterday, I used Siri to send an imessage, while I was driving... I noticed when I got home, that my message, plus the two automated "do not disturb" messages sent as a result of the response appear AFTER the reply and the "urgent" used by the sender to break through the DND mode.
So... I had not seen the problem since my last post back in May, but now it has appeared again...
I'll look for an alternative thread, or create one, but this seems to have coincided with my (apple approved, I believe) Philips clock radio lightning dock now refusing to charge my iPhone 7.... just happened last night. I doubt this is related... but you never know.
Anyone else still getting / or getting again the imessage out of order problem this thread has been all about?
Roll on iOS 12... maybe???? :~)