In the end, I’ve decided to return the 12pm. I still use an 8+ as my daily driver.. what I REALLY want is just some more screen real estate and more edge to edge.. I’ve tried the X, the Xs, the 11 and 11 pro max. with those new form factors, they are just a bit too narrow side to side, of course they have more space and screen real estate top to bottom. I was REALLY hoping that the 12pm would finally be the fit. I tried the 12 first and frankly, I really liked that. I thought the 12pm would be just even better - but, frankly it feels pretty much like a “phablet” in the hano. I like the designe of the squared off edges, but both the weight and feel of it it really feels like a big phone. I have the feeling that apple modeled their target size, shape and features on the Galaxy Note 10+. That is a great phone, great screen and screen size, feels thin, feels pretty light and rocks on the features. I think its no cooincidence that the 12pm is essentially the SAME size corner to corner. But the Note 10+ feels thiner and lighter. Easier in the hand, even more pocketable. When I pick up the 12pm I have the feeling it might as well be and iPad mini. Don’t get me wrong, it’s not huge or totally unwieldy but I can’t see it being my daily driver. At this point, I’m going to try the 12 pro (tried the regular 12 and liked the size, wanted a bit more screen and features) and see if the additional feature set over the 12 is worth it. The 12 is a REALLY nice phone and I think one of the best devices / phones apple has ever made.