How do people really think bigger phones are silly? It I actually carried a tablet with me everywhere I went, I would rather have a note 2. It fits in my pocket and is a great blend of the two devices. I honestly have to believe they have never tried one...only seen one from afar. Obviously a mega is an exception, but the note 2 is no where near this massive unpocketable phone some say it is.
For some it is....
I know I'm always drawn to the Note 2 because of reviews and all the good pub it gets....but when I actually see the thing in person and pick it up, I can't imagine using it daily like I do my smartphones.
I have my iPad mini with me most of the time, but its in my bag. My phones are always on me. For me, its more convenient to have multiple devices (a phone and tablet) that are used for different purposes rather than one device that makes compromises (too big for comfortable one-handed handling and phone use, too small for gaming and movie watching).
These are just my preferences though - I think the people who make big sweeping generalizations ("the Note 2 is EASILY used one-handed" - which I've heard before, and conversely "the Note 2 doesn't fit in my pocket" - which, unless you wear skinny jeans, is simply an attempt to discredit someone's opinion) are on both sides of the discussion.
Really it just comes down to what you want to use - my biggest issue is that Samsung's trend seems to be an increase in screen size each year across all their phone lines - will they continue to increase the Galaxy line's screen? I would be interested in a Note 3, but not at bigger than 5.5". Will they continue to "force" their customers to get a bigger phone if they want to upgrade?
I would bet not, but its funny to see how the trend is being pushed and seems to finally have hit a wall with many now saying 5" is their ideal screen size.