My wife does not work but I am game to explain.
1) My wife takes video and pictures at my kindergartner's class. Send out to 6 different moms whose kids are in class
2) My wife takes video and pictures a mom's play date. 2 are in the kinder class, but 2 are not. Send out to 4 moms
3) My wife takes video and pictures at my kindergartner's class again. One kid is absent. She sends out to 5 different mom from the day before but not the mom whose kid is absent.
4) My wife goes to a mom's group where there are 4 different kids. None in kinder and none from they day before.
5) My wife takes video and pictures of 1 kids from kinder, 1 kid from moms group on day 1, 1 on day 2, and a new one.
6) Wife takes picture of her brother's kid. Sends to her brother, and her parents.
7) Wife take picture of her brother and sisters kids. Sends to her parents , her brother, and her sister.
8) Wife takes pic of our kids. Sends to me, my parents, her parents.
Wife takes pic of our kids playing with someone else's kids. Send to me, her parents, my parents and mother of child in pictures.
That is 8 different groups right there and we haven't even covered the entirety of each day.
For my wife's immediate family and for my immediate family combined there are about 15-20 different groups just from 10 people.
I can go on and on
For me.
I am in NYC at a golf course.
1) Send to golf buddies, wife, and a few people who are into NYC
Later hanging out with some buddies I have in NYC
1) Send to the buddies who know those guys but couldn't be there with us and send to my wife. None of who are into golf so I would not send them it and maybe 1 or 2 who are into NYC depending where we are at.
If you were using android, you don't have to play second fiddle. Just grab your group by the neck and share your photos/files using a non-discriminatory popular messenger like Whatsapp/fb messenger and make them use that to get access to your share.
It is unlikely everyone in your group is using iPhone. So those Android users will be on your side. And it is not like all of them are on one messenger (iMessage) contrary to popular belief. If you use fb, Instagram etc like it or not those are messengers too. So things like, my group dont want or don't know how to install or too many messengers are confusing are more like excuses than real issues
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