Considering that your previous experience is Beats, it's easy to see why you think the APMs are the best thing since sliced bread. I realise you feel the need to justify and defend the expensive purchase.
Well I own a number of STAX electrostatics, excellent magnetostatics, and very good dynamic headphones as well as gear to drive them well.
The Airpods Max is right at home in that company. All good headphones should sound tonally similar if they aim for neutral sound reproduction, but differences between individual listener physique (and bias) make transferability of the experience a difficult proposition. Glasses, beards, hair, head shape, ear shape, ear canal, angle of the headband et cetera all colour the sound.
One of the unusual characteristics of the Airpods Max is that they actually try to take some of these into account and recalibrate themselves accordingly.
Comfort is subjective. My magnetostatics are heavier and have a less comfortable headband. My electrostatics are lighter but have a ridiculously heavy cable hanging from one of the cups. My in-ear monitors provoke ear wax production.
Everyone must judge for themselves, and their use case. This is par for the course.
The threads here tend to originate in rather extreme positions - either people gushing over their new purchase, or people being very negative, perhaps because they want confirmation and support in a decision to return them. I don’t know.
But if anyone reads these threads hoping to get a grip on whether the Airpods Max is for them, this very bipolar pattern isn’t very helpful.