I think we'll have to agree to disagree on all of that. I've bought new MBPs, Mac Minis and iMacs in the last 12 months, several in fact, and wouldn't hesitate before buying more. In my eye, no manufacturer offers a more compelling range of computers than Apple at this moment in time. Apple is not suddenly doing something wrong.
Well, I agree to disagree with you then.
I currently have a 13" white MacBook and, although I recognize it is a great well-balanced machine, it is dated. And I feel that all the other Apple machines are somewhat dated too. They are still good and beautiful, but today's technology could offer much more than what it is offering right now. I don't feel compelled to buy an expensive machine that comes with a low resolution display and a HDD. I wouldn't think twice in buying a Windows machine instead.
BTW, I understand that the range of computers Apple offers is better than the range of computers of any other manufacturer. However, there are individual models spread over the range of these manufacturers that, in my opinion, are better or more suitable than Apple's offerings. All in all, the only Apple model which currently appeals to me is the rMBP. I would pass all the others.
I'd probably go with Retina MBPs over the standard ones if I were in the market again now, though ideally I'd wait for the next revision because the current (first) generation are pushing the limits of what's practical at the moment.
Perhaps I'll do just that.
Btw, regarding 'retina' screens and cost - I don't see loads of high-res large panel monitors available on the market today, where as pretty much every mobile phone manufacturer is using high-res panels now. Smaller panels are easier and cheaper to produce, and they're being produced in massive volume. The yields on 15" 'Retina' panels are probably not great, and they're probably significantly more difficult to produce along with lower volumes being ordered, hence the added cost. Patience. There's a lot more to tech than 'I want it now'.
I understand that there's a lot more to tech than "i want it now". But I think there's much more in this delay of retina-like displays than just technical problems. There is a really lot of accomodation here.
Let me tell why I'm saying that. In fact, I bought my first computer in 1993, some 19 years ago. It was a PC, not a Mac, and it run MS-DOS and Windows 3.1. There were other times. It came with an Intel 80386 DX processor running at 33 MHz, 4 MB of RAM, a 120 MB HD, and a 2 MB video card. It also came with a 14" monitor capable of displaying images in 1024x768 resolution.
If I go to any computer store in 2012, I can buy any laptop with a dual-core processor running at a clock speed which is almost 100x faster than my first computer, and it also has several other enhancements. 4 GB RAM, which is 1000x more than I first had. And 128 GB SSD, which is not only 1000x more storage than I had, but also several times faster. Well, technology evolved, and prices kept coming down. What about the display? This very same laptop will probably come with a 1366x768 display, which is very much the same resolution I got back in 1993, but in a 16:9 widescreen format. Everything seems to have evolved, except for displays. What have these companies been doing for the last 19 years? OK, LCDs became popular, and now IPS displays are gaining ground. But not much beyond that, I guess.
I also have to say that I've been waiting for these retina displays since I bought my MacBook in 2008. The text is really awful at 1280x800 due to the text rendering technology used by Apple. I knew from the beginning that the only way the text could be improved while keeping the same text rendering tech would be by means of improving dramatically the screen resolution. I don't feel the same need while using Windows; due to ClearType rendering technology, I can use a non-retina screen resolution on it. So, it's not an "I want it now" thing. It's an "I've been patiently waiting for this for more than 4 years and just because Apple created the necessity of it at the very beginning". Apple is not doing me any favor in releasing those Macs with a retina screen; it's just fixing a problem of all MacBooks.