I agree. It’s human nature to evaluate things in the context of the familiar. If you try to get an iPad to behave like a Mac, you are going to be very frustrated and disappointed. If you use an iPad as a tablet alternative to a Mac, you will find the experience much more efficient and pleasant. Of course, there are some things a Mac is going to do better than an iPad: e.g. developing spreadsheets and rapidly referencing multiple windows. But, I would point out that some folks find a laptop frustrating for these tasks as well. I used to hate developing large complex spreadsheets on a 13in laptop screen. I needed multiple monitors and lots of workspace to get the job done efficiently. Also, there are somethings that an iPad does better than a traditional computer, e.g.: reading, annotating/marking up, note taking, sketching/diagraming.
IPadOS should be evaluated as a Tablet operating system. How well does it deliver a user experience for the things tablets do well? How well does it handle multitasking given the fact that it is touch based UI? This is the nature of a tablet. I would be interested in an example of a better tablet OS. Not one that just has more features. We all know about bloated systems with features crammed into an OS that don’t enhance the user experience. I am talking about something better than iPadOS as a tablet operating system.