Thanks so much for all your input and precious help. After reading all the posts very carefully and spending a good amount of time at the store playing with an iPad Air or Mini and Samsung Note II 2012 and 2014 and a Nexus 7, I come to this conclusion. I would buy an iPad or Mini (not too fussy about the size) but in the short time I had the Ace IIx phone, I became hooked on Widgets and all they bring to te overall experience. So much that when I switched to the iPad, I found myself searching for them and being a bit frustrated no to be able to have some information without opening and app. But one thing for sure, the Air screen is unbeatable. Nexus 7's screen comes close but this pure Android OS is a pain. I think I will go for the iPad after all but I'll have to find a way no to miss "my dear" Widgets. Use them a lot on my iMac. BTW why does Apple eliminated the widgets from iOS? Can they be added to iOS?
Again: thanks a lot for your help.
What kind of information are you looking for in the widgets? I tried the widgets on the android tablet and really didn't find the, that needed. Stuff like Facebook, email, weather. But my iPad does pretty much all of that as well with the notification screen that you pull down from the top. I would rather have it there than on my screen all the time. I even turned off the live tiles on the Asus transformer book because it drains the battery a lot faster.
In the iPad notification screen you get date, the current temp and projected high for your area. You get a list of appoint,pimentos and alarms you have scheduled for that day. Any reminders you have for the day. List of any notifications you have setup to go to it like email, Facebook, CNN, etc...
For me this is the perfect method of having widget information but not have it always showing. Can access it from the lock screen as well.
With the introduction of Control Center in iOS 7 you have some of the standard toggles in a "control panel" that you swipe up from the bottom of the screen. Now stock CC gives you decent access to things you would want but still leaves some to be desired. But jail breaking your device, which is extremely easy, allows for installation of tweaks to the OS like FlipControlCenter that allows you to choose from a number of toggles in iOS to place there so you can have what you want versus what apple chose for you. This is one of the main reasons I JB my devices.
Make sure you read the reviews for everything, good and bad, and make an informed decision. I know some of the android devices were having issues wth slowing down after a period of time. Not sure what was up with that but something to be aware of. iOS has its issues too. Sometimes updates will do the same. Other times the iPad may have a defect but apple is usually very good with exchanges. I have always been lucky and never had a problem with my iPads or iPhones.
If you have more questions though ask. I am partial to apple stuff but am open to all technology. I love to play around with new devices. If I had plenty of money I would buy one of each so I could test them out.