13 MBP is not the one to compare with higher end laptop GPUs. I have tried the ones with 3090, 3080,3070 or even the ones with 4080 or 4090. My M1 Max 64 GB MBP may be slower but doesn’t throttle nor run out of memory like those gimped up 16 GB VRAM Nvidia GPU in laptops. Like I said they do ok for gaming, but sustained GPU loads, they are duds. For my use case i7 won’t cut it, and those 12X or 13X series I9s are heaters.Weird, over the years my windows laptops with high-end i7 processors, plenty of RAM, and Nvidia GPUs have worked well with loads over time just fine. And my RTX 4060, i7-13700HX, and 32GB of RAM (which I paid a pittance for and upgraded myself) does fantastic over time. It definitely outperforms my M1 MBP 13" with 16GB of RAM. Granted it uses like 10X the power to do so. LOL.
Oddly enough my workstation with an RTX 4090/ 24 GB runs out of memory and I am forced to use my M1 Max with 64 GB unified memory. It’s lot slower but gets the job done. I am hoping by M5 or M6, Apple can get out a laptop with 256 GB Unified memory and GPU comparable to RTX XX80 series GPU.